Advice to bridesmaid

How to deal with being a bridesmaid

Being a bridesmaid is honoring yet there are commitments that come with this. You're the bride's best pal, so you're "the chosen one" - your friend's tying the knot and it's a very unique occasion certainly, but there are so many things to arrange, that you don't know where to start. The main idea is that you're supposed to glow, not for yourself - but for your friend - concentrate everything you do around that and you should be ok!

The dress - this is basically the toughest decision. You'd like it to be not too fancy, but still classy; think about the wedding theme when you decide on this, and discuss with friends - and especially with the bride (after all, it's her party - she should enjoy it the most). If you want dress examples, just Google them - you'll find hundreds; you can even have the pleasant surprise to find nice dresses under $100.

The shoes - should definitely go along with the dress - from every point of view (color,style and so on). Here I'd like to point out it's very important that you feel very comfortable wearing them - you don't want anything ruining your mood - so think about that when you make the choice.

Choosing the hairstyle can be a real challenge, but that's when the Internet comes in again - it saves you a ton of time, since you can always search for hairstyles, print them out and take them to your stylist. Depending on your hair's length, there are numerous variations that you can choose - but then again, you have to make sure it fits the dress, shoes and so on.

Last but not least, since you're the bridesmaid - you're best suited to organize the bridal shower party. It's strongly suggested to organize it secretly to surprise the bride 100% - so the effect will be guaranteed. Things to have on your mind: theme, the supplies, invitations, games, and so on - it's not such an easy task at all.

Whatever your choices will be, everything will work out just great if you do things with all your heart and driven by the idea to make your friend happy. When you'll realize that it's all about giving and not receiving, everything will start to blossom for you and for your friend. Here's to your success!

About the author: Roberto Garabell writes for a printable bridal shower games helpful website. It contains many resources related mostly to bridal shower parties, like wedding shower favors, themes, ideas, decorations and many more.